my cousin is going to be a grandma

I just heard that my cousin whom we lived with all this time is going to be a grandma !! I know she will be thrilled with that . I cannot imagine what she must be thinking and Im sure I will find out soon enough . I remember one time she told me that she did not want to be a grandma and I asked her if she had a choice in the matter and she started laughing and said no not really . I fear for this kid growing up in a wicked world that we have now .